Why You Suck At Giving Head
And how to get better at it today.
Welcome to Pleasure month!
Every week this month I’m gonna post something about how to experience more pleasure every single day. And not just any kind of pleasure- this month we’re specifically focusing on the kind of pleasure that comes from fucking yourself and other people.
Today’s topic: how to get better at giving head.
I used to be extremely apathetic about oral sex. And honestly, I would avoid it. Even now I don’t jump to do it because it requires more attention to detail than I’m always trying to pay when I’m fucking someone. But when done recreationally- like if I’m not focused on an outcome and I’m just there to have a good time- giving head can be awesome. But I do think good work takes practice and patience, and giving good head can become a metaphor for how you choose to approach life.
Jessamyn Stanley is the author of Yoke and Every Body Yoga,
limited signed copies are available here. You can find unsigned copies on Amazon, Bookshop, and published in German here.
